Akon Under Investigation For Dry Humping 14-Year-Old Girl Comments (Page 2)
55 Comments
Helen
July 27th, 2007 2:20 PM
OMG Akon Is An Animal And Everyone Says The Girl liked It ''Deena Alleyne'' And i Think She Did Like It Besides Everyone Hates Akon Now And So Do I Lol.
Now I Only Like His Songs And He Even Made Her A Song '' Sorry, Blame it On Me'' When I First Heard The Vedio I Didn't Know He Made It Casue That Happend So AKON SCARES THE CRAP!!! Outta Me Now And He SUCKS!!!!!!
Peace Out People
bee
July 17th, 2007 6:53 PM
i am 1 of akons biggest fans and he dident know how old she was its not his fault it is the parents fault 4 letting som 1 14 in a 21 over club evean akon said in the song he thaout it was 21 and up
i am on akons side
i luv u akon
bee
examiner
July 12th, 2007 3:53 AM
I was happy to find it!
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emma rqb
July 9th, 2007 7:22 PM
Majority info here.
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Leafy & Roch
June 26th, 2007 4:47 PM
I think we have the right to speak because we are 14 years old.
1. Who does she think she is going to a 18 and over club, (also who ever said) 21 and over U are WRONG!!
2. Akon should of ask the girl For her ID card.Instead of going and fuckin and finguren her on the stage!!!!
Akon is a PUSHT and the GAL is a PEZEVENK!!!
in english it means Akon is Gay and the gal is a BITCH!!!!!!!!!!
I WILL NEVER LISTEN TO HIS MUSIC AGAIN, ALSO WHO EVER SAID AKON IS THE BEST RAPPER AAHHA SKEEN!!!
rose
June 20th, 2007 11:45 PM
poor Akon it's ashame that he is being labeled... the girl was on him riding him... did everyone miss that... she had no business being at a 21 and older club at some 14 years old (she looks older)... She is obviously not as innocent as she's been made out to be because if she were she would not have been there in the first place... poor, poor Akon
becky
June 16th, 2007 10:59 AM
how disusting akon i fort you wre better then that go to hell blick
janelle
June 6th, 2007 11:46 AM
i dont think akon was wrong,he thought the girl was over 18,and as you can see in the video she seem to like it. she didnt tell him to stop, she was just taking it and smiling. so akon wasnt wrong for what he did
Tiara
May 18th, 2007 4:57 PM
I am a young person so I think I should have a large say so in this discussion. Mistakes she made
1. Going to an 18 and over party
2. Dressing over 18
3. Agreeing to go on stage
I'm not fully on AKon's side. I really never completely even liked his music that much, but i feel as though the major problem was this young girl. This girl probably snuck out the house put on this outfit over a friends house or maybe outside the concert! Father probably MOST LIKELY didnt know. And out of any concerts an AKON concert. concerts cost money. PEOPLE when you pay your hard earned money for something don't you think you should know the history of it. Before I even took a look at the video i youtubed ALL AKON CONCERT'S. Most of the other concerts were kept pg 13. But others that were FOR ADULTS were vulgour. Dont think I spelled that right. Anywho. What my point is, she knew where she was going and knew what she wanted to do by wearing an outfit like that to an overage party. Im 15 and I am extremely embarred to have a girl who asks like this to be so unintelligent! Totally mental or rejection feelings she must have had. Even if she just wanted to see him and didnt even exspect to possibly get asked on stage the thought of not only the person your coming to see getting in offical trouble but the shame you also share of being a preachers daughter. I dont completely blame akon another reason because it has been said that he did require every1 to be 18 and over. SHE WASNT. ima say it again SHE wasnt. I'm so tired of so many adults saying oh this poor girl, this poor girl. NO. Stop babying her. Every1 has a flip side and unless you see both then you should have NO SAY SO. If This girl is grown enough to sneek into a party then she is grown enough to be hit with the down right truth of her disgust. Also before watching the video I also you tubed dancing done in jamaica/trindad/ Dancehall and compared to what he did, that was NOTHING. Go see for yourself. Besides the point. Then I watched the video and before I even saw it I sumed up how it was gonna look. A fast little girl danceing inapproaitely or acting inapprioately. HEY!!!I was right:) I respect Akon for after finding out apoliging for something he didn't even know could happen. He did it for the girls comfort and for his image. Of course now he knows what she must be going through but even knows what he will go through because of it. AKON ACTED A FOOL on stage. YES. But it's been done so much through out were he came from. I totally agree with the man who said if it was a grown women with akon people wouldnt cared as much, THAT is because they've seen it b4. I wonder how when and how her father found out about it. Poor man is what i say. Poor man. His little girl is fast. Never easy for a father to accept:) Well that concludes my thoughts, pretty long but so needed. If anyone disagrees with my desicion great, lets talk about it. I'll be back;)
Stef
May 14th, 2007 10:52 AM
and when everyone started talkin bout this shit what was the girl supposed to say to her daddy? 'oh yeah i loved every minute of it'? get real, the easiest thing is to play the victim. especially when you get money out of it
Stef
May 14th, 2007 10:48 AM
i bet that girl loved it, and she don't look like no 14 year old to me. did you see her high heels? if she wanted akon to stop she could've kicked him in the nuts or something, i bet that would hurt like hell.
hottest guy in the world
May 13th, 2007 10:36 AM
yo jones, it doesnt matter how old that girl is. hes raping the shit out of her. PS mb made out with tw
Abby
May 12th, 2007 7:21 PM
You fuckin baster how dare you. Why didn't you just pull her pants down and stick it up her. I fuckin hate you
Jones
May 11th, 2007 2:27 PM
Hey F%£$ all yo'll hating on Akon.
14 yrs old pastors daughter bla bla, wot a good way to get some cash of Akon.
Not even superman would b able to tell a 14 yr old from an 18 in a club. so wot the F£$%*
She shouldn't have been @ the club in the first place. Big middle finger to all u haters.
Kym
May 11th, 2007 12:26 PM
Right...Listen!
i typed dis once and sumit happened now am vexed right! why u idiots blamin da man for puttin on a good show huh? *yes ino nt spellin ryt called msn spellin n txtin spellin so dnt hate* anyways 1) akon dus tht kinda stuff at his shows, ryt so if she did her research shed kno wht e wa gna do n it sounded lyk she wa luvin every minute of it did y'all c her dry humpin HIM no corz ya dint y'all c wot ya wna c init 2) blame the club, now am 18 n i still get id'd right n granted i luk bwt 12 but yano bouncers do theyre job in yorkshire, obv not wher dis wa they dnt so 2 b fair Akon wuda rightly thort my gyals 18 smilin n grinin all up in da club she wntz piece *yes dat hoochie wnted it so y'all stop ay cussin* 3)shes a pastor daughter n he allows is 14 yr old 2 go 2 an 18 yr old club dressed lyk a skank *yes a skank* n u blame akon? 4) all u idiot sayin i aint gonna listen 2 akon nemore wen es next track comes out y'all b bummin it up da arse lyk u wa smack that, i wna f/l u, n off da trubble album so dnt lie and this is no different 2 y'all bumpin n grindin on da dncefloor on a sat nyt wit diff manz up in da club jus es an entertainer n da crowd luved it so urm ye it wurked u seen da vid da crowd luved it, so u call wht akon did degradin ryt isit degradin wen y'all or on da dncefloor bumpin n grindin no no thts dancin isnt it, ye mayb a lil ova top but dts entertainment so stop ya cussin yo hypocrites! grr its u peop dt get mi mad cusin him coz its hip hop or coz es blck wtf y'all r mad n am repeatin now n i had a well good paragraph but a lost it nw but not akons fault big up akon keep doin ya stuff 2 love x
Melissa
May 10th, 2007 12:20 PM
Akon crossed the line, period.
Our society, and other cultures, still has hidden threads of misogyny, accepted sexual assault, and sexism.
No matter how a woman dresses, talks, or behaves, there is NO RIGHT to disrespect a person like that. You cannot excuse Akon's behavior because she "asked for it" or because she "went to the club". Regardless, we must be held accountable for our actions. We should not lower our standards because (1) he is a male and/or (2) he is a celebrity.
As a professional social worker, and a sexual assault survivor, I think we need to start giving responsibility to the aggressors and start supporting the survivors/victims of any type of violation, crime or assault...even if he or she wears a short skirt.
BeBe
May 9th, 2007 11:19 PM
Can't stand Akon. He is a part of the reason why hip hop gets such a bad rap in the press. Too many knuckleheads crossing the line.
DESHAMIR
May 9th, 2007 1:07 PM
AND IT DONT MATTER WHAT ALL THE PPL SAYIN U WILL STILL LIKE HIS MUSIC NO MATTER WHAT
DESHAMIR
May 9th, 2007 1:03 PM
PPL SAY THEY DISGUSTED BY IT WHY U DANCE JUST LIKE THAT EVEN WORSE WHEN U GO TO DA CLUB N PARTY THAT GYRL IS FAST IM MAD AT THE FATHER FOR NOT KNOWIN WHERE HIS CHILD IS IN DA FIRST PLACE N DA CLUB NOT CHECKIN I.D. N LOOK HOW SHE DRESSED HE DIDNT KNOW KIDS TODAY LOOK GROWN N SHE SHO WASNT MAD SHE BEEN SMILEN HARD THE WHOLE TIME
kaitlynclement
May 9th, 2007 7:36 AM
for all you people hating on akon, just stop. that dumb girl is the one who agreed to come onstage with him... people dance like that all the time. anyone seen mtv lately??? this is just being blown out of proportion, and unfortunately it cost the tour. thankfully i got to see one of the last performances he had with gwen in dallas on cinco de mayo, and its a shame cause he was an excellent performance. its not like akon knew that she was 14, did anyone see what she was wearing? not exactly what a preacher's daughter should be wearing... let alone the fact she is underage and somehow managed to find her way into the club.
although the dancing was raunchy i will admit, its just as much that girl's fault as his. you cant call that rape, there was NO INTERCOURSE! NO SEX! just plain old dirty dancin'. and she is the one who chose to go up on stage with him.
anon
May 9th, 2007 6:24 AM
Maybe it's just me, but personally, I didn't hear the young lady laughing. It sounded more to me like she was in shock, kind of like it hurt or something. But definately not laughter. Regardless of what it was, this was the most vile thing I have seen in a LONG time. He looked like a wild animal on that stage dragging it's "mate" around and humping it. It was disgusting. I used to think he was OK...now, I think he is a piece of sh!t.
jamstan
May 8th, 2007 9:27 PM
I think Akon's behaviour was pathetic and maybe he knew she was underaged. If the club's letting underaged kids in do you think they're going to admit it? Coincidence he picked her? There's a Santa Claus too. She did not resist it a bit. What a disgrace to her family.
natalia
May 8th, 2007 7:30 PM
OMG. I CAN SO NOT BELIEVE THAT AKON DID THAT ...TO A 14 YEAR-OLD. AND HOW THE HECK DIDSHE EVEN GET ITO THAT CUB. I MEAN I USETO LOVE AKON B 4 BUT NOW HE JUST SEEMS TOTALLY DISCUSTING TO ME. AND LUCKY ME I HAD JUST GONE TO THE SWEET ESCAPE TOUR A COUPLE OF DAYS BEFORE AND I THOUGHT HE WAS AWESOME I WOULD OF NEVER THOUGHT HED DO THAT. SIRIOUSLY THIS $#!% IS BANANAS YALL. B-A-N-A-N-A-S! I PROMISE NEVER TO HEARTO HIS MUSIC AGAIN
Michael
May 8th, 2007 7:05 PM
Firstly I am, just like many disturbed by what I saw. There are two problems that I see here. Akon to get to the level of celebrity and success he has, has obviously disregarded any sense of moral decency. His fame has allowed him to do what he has liked and up until now he has gotten away with it. The public - both men and women have allowed him to push the boudaries of what is acceptable.
Secondly, and several posts have touched on this subject loosely..No matter how much she DOES NOT deserve this, and how unfortunate and degrading it may be for her, the blame lies equally with her as well.
Yes, she may not have known what was about to happen when she stepped on that stage..but it is a case of self respect and dignity. Doing what she did and go into the club at her age - dressed like that - she must know the attention she could create for herself.
I am sorry chaapanda but everybody has to take responsibility for their actions...Akon did not force her to go to the club or put on that "I want to act like a skank outfit". This girl, going on stage obviosly must have assumed she was going to skank dance with him...why else would a good looking female go on stage with him? If Akon anted to hang out with a fan, he could have chosen a bloke to go up there. Guy's may create opportunities (in the form of venues like this or in a music video) for girls to devalue themselves, but girls, you have the option. You can be strong and empowering, like we all know you can, or you can cry and continually say you are the victims - but don't try and have it both ways. Listen to the song "stupid Girls" by pink "what happened to the dream of a girl president, she's dancing in the video next to fifty cent"
Violence and abuse in any form is wrong, whether it occur on any gender, but in a case like this both people are to blame.
dani
May 8th, 2007 7:04 PM
What I want to know, is how this act had anything to do with the music he was supposed to be singing! I have been to concerts before, and no not to Akons, but have never seen any musician carry on like this.
Twitter
July 27th, 2007 2:20 PM
OMG Akon Is An Animal And Everyone Says The Girl liked It ''Deena Alleyne'' And i Think She Did Like It Besides Everyone Hates Akon Now And So Do I Lol.
Now I Only Like His Songs And He Even Made Her A Song '' Sorry, Blame it On Me'' When I First Heard The Vedio I Didn't Know He Made It Casue That Happend So AKON SCARES THE CRAP!!! Outta Me Now And He SUCKS!!!!!!
Peace Out People
July 17th, 2007 6:53 PM
i am 1 of akons biggest fans and he dident know how old she was its not his fault it is the parents fault 4 letting som 1 14 in a 21 over club evean akon said in the song he thaout it was 21 and up
i am on akons side
i luv u akon
bee
July 12th, 2007 3:53 AM
I was happy to find it!
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July 9th, 2007 7:22 PM
Majority info here.
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June 26th, 2007 4:47 PM
I think we have the right to speak because we are 14 years old.
1. Who does she think she is going to a 18 and over club, (also who ever said) 21 and over U are WRONG!!
2. Akon should of ask the girl For her ID card.Instead of going and fuckin and finguren her on the stage!!!!
Akon is a PUSHT and the GAL is a PEZEVENK!!!
in english it means Akon is Gay and the gal is a BITCH!!!!!!!!!!
I WILL NEVER LISTEN TO HIS MUSIC AGAIN, ALSO WHO EVER SAID AKON IS THE BEST RAPPER AAHHA SKEEN!!!
June 20th, 2007 11:45 PM
poor Akon it's ashame that he is being labeled... the girl was on him riding him... did everyone miss that... she had no business being at a 21 and older club at some 14 years old (she looks older)... She is obviously not as innocent as she's been made out to be because if she were she would not have been there in the first place... poor, poor Akon
June 16th, 2007 10:59 AM
how disusting akon i fort you wre better then that go to hell blick
June 6th, 2007 11:46 AM
i dont think akon was wrong,he thought the girl was over 18,and as you can see in the video she seem to like it. she didnt tell him to stop, she was just taking it and smiling. so akon wasnt wrong for what he did
May 18th, 2007 4:57 PM
I am a young person so I think I should have a large say so in this discussion. Mistakes she made
1. Going to an 18 and over party
2. Dressing over 18
3. Agreeing to go on stage
I'm not fully on AKon's side. I really never completely even liked his music that much, but i feel as though the major problem was this young girl. This girl probably snuck out the house put on this outfit over a friends house or maybe outside the concert! Father probably MOST LIKELY didnt know. And out of any concerts an AKON concert. concerts cost money. PEOPLE when you pay your hard earned money for something don't you think you should know the history of it. Before I even took a look at the video i youtubed ALL AKON CONCERT'S. Most of the other concerts were kept pg 13. But others that were FOR ADULTS were vulgour. Dont think I spelled that right. Anywho. What my point is, she knew where she was going and knew what she wanted to do by wearing an outfit like that to an overage party. Im 15 and I am extremely embarred to have a girl who asks like this to be so unintelligent! Totally mental or rejection feelings she must have had. Even if she just wanted to see him and didnt even exspect to possibly get asked on stage the thought of not only the person your coming to see getting in offical trouble but the shame you also share of being a preachers daughter. I dont completely blame akon another reason because it has been said that he did require every1 to be 18 and over. SHE WASNT. ima say it again SHE wasnt. I'm so tired of so many adults saying oh this poor girl, this poor girl. NO. Stop babying her. Every1 has a flip side and unless you see both then you should have NO SAY SO. If This girl is grown enough to sneek into a party then she is grown enough to be hit with the down right truth of her disgust. Also before watching the video I also you tubed dancing done in jamaica/trindad/ Dancehall and compared to what he did, that was NOTHING. Go see for yourself. Besides the point. Then I watched the video and before I even saw it I sumed up how it was gonna look. A fast little girl danceing inapproaitely or acting inapprioately. HEY!!!I was right:) I respect Akon for after finding out apoliging for something he didn't even know could happen. He did it for the girls comfort and for his image. Of course now he knows what she must be going through but even knows what he will go through because of it. AKON ACTED A FOOL on stage. YES. But it's been done so much through out were he came from. I totally agree with the man who said if it was a grown women with akon people wouldnt cared as much, THAT is because they've seen it b4. I wonder how when and how her father found out about it. Poor man is what i say. Poor man. His little girl is fast. Never easy for a father to accept:) Well that concludes my thoughts, pretty long but so needed. If anyone disagrees with my desicion great, lets talk about it. I'll be back;)
May 14th, 2007 10:52 AM
and when everyone started talkin bout this shit what was the girl supposed to say to her daddy? 'oh yeah i loved every minute of it'? get real, the easiest thing is to play the victim. especially when you get money out of it
May 14th, 2007 10:48 AM
i bet that girl loved it, and she don't look like no 14 year old to me. did you see her high heels? if she wanted akon to stop she could've kicked him in the nuts or something, i bet that would hurt like hell.
May 13th, 2007 10:36 AM
yo jones, it doesnt matter how old that girl is. hes raping the shit out of her. PS mb made out with tw
May 12th, 2007 7:21 PM
You fuckin baster how dare you. Why didn't you just pull her pants down and stick it up her. I fuckin hate you
May 11th, 2007 2:27 PM
Hey F%£$ all yo'll hating on Akon.
14 yrs old pastors daughter bla bla, wot a good way to get some cash of Akon.
Not even superman would b able to tell a 14 yr old from an 18 in a club. so wot the F£$%*
She shouldn't have been @ the club in the first place. Big middle finger to all u haters.
May 11th, 2007 12:26 PM
Right...Listen!
i typed dis once and sumit happened now am vexed right! why u idiots blamin da man for puttin on a good show huh? *yes ino nt spellin ryt called msn spellin n txtin spellin so dnt hate* anyways 1) akon dus tht kinda stuff at his shows, ryt so if she did her research shed kno wht e wa gna do n it sounded lyk she wa luvin every minute of it did y'all c her dry humpin HIM no corz ya dint y'all c wot ya wna c init 2) blame the club, now am 18 n i still get id'd right n granted i luk bwt 12 but yano bouncers do theyre job in yorkshire, obv not wher dis wa they dnt so 2 b fair Akon wuda rightly thort my gyals 18 smilin n grinin all up in da club she wntz piece *yes dat hoochie wnted it so y'all stop ay cussin* 3)shes a pastor daughter n he allows is 14 yr old 2 go 2 an 18 yr old club dressed lyk a skank *yes a skank* n u blame akon? 4) all u idiot sayin i aint gonna listen 2 akon nemore wen es next track comes out y'all b bummin it up da arse lyk u wa smack that, i wna f/l u, n off da trubble album so dnt lie and this is no different 2 y'all bumpin n grindin on da dncefloor on a sat nyt wit diff manz up in da club jus es an entertainer n da crowd luved it so urm ye it wurked u seen da vid da crowd luved it, so u call wht akon did degradin ryt isit degradin wen y'all or on da dncefloor bumpin n grindin no no thts dancin isnt it, ye mayb a lil ova top but dts entertainment so stop ya cussin yo hypocrites! grr its u peop dt get mi mad cusin him coz its hip hop or coz es blck wtf y'all r mad n am repeatin now n i had a well good paragraph but a lost it nw but not akons fault big up akon keep doin ya stuff 2 love x
May 10th, 2007 12:20 PM
Akon crossed the line, period.
Our society, and other cultures, still has hidden threads of misogyny, accepted sexual assault, and sexism.
No matter how a woman dresses, talks, or behaves, there is NO RIGHT to disrespect a person like that. You cannot excuse Akon's behavior because she "asked for it" or because she "went to the club". Regardless, we must be held accountable for our actions. We should not lower our standards because (1) he is a male and/or (2) he is a celebrity.
As a professional social worker, and a sexual assault survivor, I think we need to start giving responsibility to the aggressors and start supporting the survivors/victims of any type of violation, crime or assault...even if he or she wears a short skirt.
May 9th, 2007 11:19 PM
Can't stand Akon. He is a part of the reason why hip hop gets such a bad rap in the press. Too many knuckleheads crossing the line.
May 9th, 2007 1:07 PM
AND IT DONT MATTER WHAT ALL THE PPL SAYIN U WILL STILL LIKE HIS MUSIC NO MATTER WHAT
May 9th, 2007 1:03 PM
PPL SAY THEY DISGUSTED BY IT WHY U DANCE JUST LIKE THAT EVEN WORSE WHEN U GO TO DA CLUB N PARTY THAT GYRL IS FAST IM MAD AT THE FATHER FOR NOT KNOWIN WHERE HIS CHILD IS IN DA FIRST PLACE N DA CLUB NOT CHECKIN I.D. N LOOK HOW SHE DRESSED HE DIDNT KNOW KIDS TODAY LOOK GROWN N SHE SHO WASNT MAD SHE BEEN SMILEN HARD THE WHOLE TIME
May 9th, 2007 7:36 AM
for all you people hating on akon, just stop. that dumb girl is the one who agreed to come onstage with him... people dance like that all the time. anyone seen mtv lately??? this is just being blown out of proportion, and unfortunately it cost the tour. thankfully i got to see one of the last performances he had with gwen in dallas on cinco de mayo, and its a shame cause he was an excellent performance. its not like akon knew that she was 14, did anyone see what she was wearing? not exactly what a preacher's daughter should be wearing... let alone the fact she is underage and somehow managed to find her way into the club.
although the dancing was raunchy i will admit, its just as much that girl's fault as his. you cant call that rape, there was NO INTERCOURSE! NO SEX! just plain old dirty dancin'. and she is the one who chose to go up on stage with him.
May 9th, 2007 6:24 AM
Maybe it's just me, but personally, I didn't hear the young lady laughing. It sounded more to me like she was in shock, kind of like it hurt or something. But definately not laughter. Regardless of what it was, this was the most vile thing I have seen in a LONG time. He looked like a wild animal on that stage dragging it's "mate" around and humping it. It was disgusting. I used to think he was OK...now, I think he is a piece of sh!t.
May 8th, 2007 9:27 PM
I think Akon's behaviour was pathetic and maybe he knew she was underaged. If the club's letting underaged kids in do you think they're going to admit it? Coincidence he picked her? There's a Santa Claus too. She did not resist it a bit. What a disgrace to her family.
May 8th, 2007 7:30 PM
OMG. I CAN SO NOT BELIEVE THAT AKON DID THAT ...TO A 14 YEAR-OLD. AND HOW THE HECK DIDSHE EVEN GET ITO THAT CUB. I MEAN I USETO LOVE AKON B 4 BUT NOW HE JUST SEEMS TOTALLY DISCUSTING TO ME. AND LUCKY ME I HAD JUST GONE TO THE SWEET ESCAPE TOUR A COUPLE OF DAYS BEFORE AND I THOUGHT HE WAS AWESOME I WOULD OF NEVER THOUGHT HED DO THAT. SIRIOUSLY THIS $#!% IS BANANAS YALL. B-A-N-A-N-A-S! I PROMISE NEVER TO HEARTO HIS MUSIC AGAIN
May 8th, 2007 7:05 PM
Firstly I am, just like many disturbed by what I saw. There are two problems that I see here. Akon to get to the level of celebrity and success he has, has obviously disregarded any sense of moral decency. His fame has allowed him to do what he has liked and up until now he has gotten away with it. The public - both men and women have allowed him to push the boudaries of what is acceptable.
Secondly, and several posts have touched on this subject loosely..No matter how much she DOES NOT deserve this, and how unfortunate and degrading it may be for her, the blame lies equally with her as well.
Yes, she may not have known what was about to happen when she stepped on that stage..but it is a case of self respect and dignity. Doing what she did and go into the club at her age - dressed like that - she must know the attention she could create for herself.
I am sorry chaapanda but everybody has to take responsibility for their actions...Akon did not force her to go to the club or put on that "I want to act like a skank outfit". This girl, going on stage obviosly must have assumed she was going to skank dance with him...why else would a good looking female go on stage with him? If Akon anted to hang out with a fan, he could have chosen a bloke to go up there. Guy's may create opportunities (in the form of venues like this or in a music video) for girls to devalue themselves, but girls, you have the option. You can be strong and empowering, like we all know you can, or you can cry and continually say you are the victims - but don't try and have it both ways. Listen to the song "stupid Girls" by pink "what happened to the dream of a girl president, she's dancing in the video next to fifty cent"
Violence and abuse in any form is wrong, whether it occur on any gender, but in a case like this both people are to blame.
May 8th, 2007 7:04 PM
What I want to know, is how this act had anything to do with the music he was supposed to be singing! I have been to concerts before, and no not to Akons, but have never seen any musician carry on like this.