Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson in NYC Pics

Now, I have something very random to ask all you phantoms who won't email me your thoughts. But, here goes it... Why is everyone all just like, 'Awwww, Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson are SO cute. They're just SO cute together!' AND, people are all like, 'Ellen DeGeneres and Portia DeRossi are adorable! They're so cute!'

I've said it too. BUT, when I saw these pics today on a site with the caption that, "Lindsay and Samantha are so cute!" it kind of pissed me off. Why is a relationship with two females always referred to as cute?! Gay male relationships are usually referred to as 'hot' or a 'good couple' but not simply 'cute.'

Sure, people say straight couples are cute, but I can't shake the feeling that part of the reason why girl on girl is "cute" is because some people don't get it, it's kind of shocking. You mean, two women can be in a relationship without a penis and they can actually be happy? That's cute!' - just a thought that I would LOVE to hear your take on.

Am I digging for something here? Because I don't think I am, really. Time and time again it's the lesbian couples who are consistently referred to as cute, it's sexist, it's borderline homophobic and it's bullshit.

PLEASE use my contact tab. I'm getting more annoyed and intrigued about this by the second.

Plus, I CAN'T believe People magazine is outing Lindsay, check it.

Holding hands and gazing into each other eyes, the couple dined in a cozy, candlelit corner table at Gemma late Monday evening. The two looked quite happy, sitting next to each other as they chatted and laughed in a dark corner of the popular restaurant alongside Ronson's brother Mark and a male friend.

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