Thank you Spicy for being familiar with my writing and knowing that this wasn't a pity party post. Good lord.
Craig of all people you should know that I'm too whorish to be a Mrs. at this point and you should actually date, but that's your choice.
Jester is forgiven because he's a newbie, but you two don't make me feel like I should share shiz cause you clearly missed the humor and sarcasm in my post that I had so much fun writing. At least I made myself lol at some points. Now excuse me while I go pull this baseball bat out my ass.
I must really love lil ole outspoken u. We clash, but it makes for good content. I can forgive you, but it's pretty obvious that I was JOKING.
Maybe you're just getting familiar with my sense of humor, so I can understand.
I'm not insecure, although I have my moments as does everyone. My post is about marriage, but the same temporary feelings of inadequacy can be evoked by anything from not having kids to not having a job to not having a car, money or even an iPhone.
I was saying that when it feels like everyone around you has something that you do not, it's very obvious to you and it can feel strange.
I would never lie to my former BFF! We have a lot of history together, and I knew her sister since she was literally a child.
Hells ya it feels strange that she is also hitched.
Your hubby is cute, he was worth the wait but not everyone is lucky enough to get married no matter what age. Waiting till you're in your mid-30s like Jester suggests is more ideal than realistic. Doesn't always work that way.
Craigmackk
January 27th, 2009 8:32 PM
Awww, FC, don't allow long-time friends, with their current lifestyles establish a barometer of where you should be in life today!
Overthinking and being overly-concerned about anyone like-minded in age, etc. and whether they're married or not will cause you to go mental after a while. Just be yourself!
As a friend, I know for a fact you've accomplished so much during your lifetime, and that in of itself should be giving you great, positive energy. Condition yourself to think in that type of mindset.
And, as you know, I am single too, but I've been making a conscious not to allow myself to be consumed in peep's relationship stauses. Granted, it's convenient to get caught-up in all of that on social networking sites, etc., but follow my lead though. In that regard, you'll be better off ultimately.
A great deal of your life is yet to be accomplished, too, and you will have a sufficient amount of time to approach anything related to marriage (albeit that it's currently
Why are you being so insecure? From my perspective you have a lot going for you, and still a lot to accomplish. Married people with good marriages have goals but ones that are not conflicted by the goals of their families. You don't need that shit. You need to be free as a bird to do what you want. Plus marriage is totally antiquated and only works when you are older. PLUS women don't hit their sexual prime in their mid-30s! If you are gonna get married and be married for the rest of your life, why would you wanna get married at an age that it's IMPOSSIBLE to know what you want.
You need a glass of wine and a few episodes of Sex and the City to make you feel better.
And you should also be honest with this friend. You never know, you two could really re-connect in friendship and you don't want to start that out with a lie. Plus, if shes a good person and a good friend she won't judge you for having a different lifestyle than she.
Was that comment long enough? Haha.
Spicy
January 27th, 2009 5:14 PM
Bitch please! I didn't get married until I was 31! I don't think you should be allowed to before your 30s! Get everything out of your system first. Yup.
Twitter
January 27th, 2009 9:10 PM
Thank you Spicy for being familiar with my writing and knowing that this wasn't a pity party post. Good lord.
Craig of all people you should know that I'm too whorish to be a Mrs. at this point and you should actually date, but that's your choice.
Jester is forgiven because he's a newbie, but you two don't make me feel like I should share shiz cause you clearly missed the humor and sarcasm in my post that I had so much fun writing. At least I made myself lol at some points. Now excuse me while I go pull this baseball bat out my ass.
January 27th, 2009 9:06 PM
Jester,
I must really love lil ole outspoken u. We clash, but it makes for good content. I can forgive you, but it's pretty obvious that I was JOKING.
Maybe you're just getting familiar with my sense of humor, so I can understand.
I'm not insecure, although I have my moments as does everyone. My post is about marriage, but the same temporary feelings of inadequacy can be evoked by anything from not having kids to not having a job to not having a car, money or even an iPhone.
I was saying that when it feels like everyone around you has something that you do not, it's very obvious to you and it can feel strange.
I would never lie to my former BFF! We have a lot of history together, and I knew her sister since she was literally a child.
Hells ya it feels strange that she is also hitched.
January 27th, 2009 8:59 PM
Spicy,
You know it! Luv ya girl.
Your hubby is cute, he was worth the wait but not everyone is lucky enough to get married no matter what age. Waiting till you're in your mid-30s like Jester suggests is more ideal than realistic. Doesn't always work that way.
January 27th, 2009 8:32 PM
Awww, FC, don't allow long-time friends, with their current lifestyles establish a barometer of where you should be in life today!
Overthinking and being overly-concerned about anyone like-minded in age, etc. and whether they're married or not will cause you to go mental after a while. Just be yourself!
As a friend, I know for a fact you've accomplished so much during your lifetime, and that in of itself should be giving you great, positive energy. Condition yourself to think in that type of mindset.
And, as you know, I am single too, but I've been making a conscious not to allow myself to be consumed in peep's relationship stauses. Granted, it's convenient to get caught-up in all of that on social networking sites, etc., but follow my lead though. In that regard, you'll be better off ultimately.
A great deal of your life is yet to be accomplished, too, and you will have a sufficient amount of time to approach anything related to marriage (albeit that it's currently
January 27th, 2009 7:31 PM
Why are you being so insecure? From my perspective you have a lot going for you, and still a lot to accomplish. Married people with good marriages have goals but ones that are not conflicted by the goals of their families. You don't need that shit. You need to be free as a bird to do what you want. Plus marriage is totally antiquated and only works when you are older. PLUS women don't hit their sexual prime in their mid-30s! If you are gonna get married and be married for the rest of your life, why would you wanna get married at an age that it's IMPOSSIBLE to know what you want.
You need a glass of wine and a few episodes of Sex and the City to make you feel better.
And you should also be honest with this friend. You never know, you two could really re-connect in friendship and you don't want to start that out with a lie. Plus, if shes a good person and a good friend she won't judge you for having a different lifestyle than she.
Was that comment long enough? Haha.
January 27th, 2009 5:14 PM
Bitch please! I didn't get married until I was 31! I don't think you should be allowed to before your 30s! Get everything out of your system first. Yup.