Last night I got off the phone with my friend who's a record industry executive and she told me some things about Rihanna that sheds new light.
Rihanna is a raging bitch and my friend's friends have witnessed Rihanna slapping the shit out of Chris Brown at various parties on several occasions! While at the crowded social functions that Rihanna wouldn't just start beating on Chris, the two would be seen arguing over something, Rihanna would shove him or hit him and they would storm out together on a regular basis! They are a volatile couple and Rihanna and Chris equally love their dysfunction.
I remember that my record industry friend told me RiRi and Chris would get back together BEFORE they actually did. She says some men love women who fight and some women love it too. She reminded me that they're probably having incredible makeup sex right now and she thinks that they'll even get married.
She says that Rihanna needs a mature, older man, not 19-year-old Chris, but that she acts like an idiot and no older man would wanna put up with her immature ass. She says that Rihanna grew up around men, fighting with her male relatives. She's probably a fairly decent fighter and doesn't consider fighting with a man as out of the ordinary as we do.
Here I was thinking of Rihanna as such a pushover behind closed doors. Not true! Rihanna allegedly beats on Chris Brown all the time. In summary - they're poison for each other.
Just to reiterate, I am not on Chris' side. Domestic violence is cowardly, reprehensible, unforgivable and often untreatable behavior. BUT, Chris' relatives and various people have said that Rihanna had to do something to set Chris off because he's not an angry, violent person. My friend says Rihanna was probably arguing with him, slapping him and being a bitch, then thought it was cute to throw his keys out the window and that's how their fight began. There are definitely two sides to a story and Rihanna and Chris both need to properly treat their dysfunction, not together, but away from each other.
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March 2nd, 2009 5:42 PM
Wow. That is really something and I think you hit the nail on the head when you said they're poison for each other. They both come from dysfunctional backgrounds, with Chris witnessing the domestic abuse of his mother and Rihanna seeing her parents constantly argue over her dads addiction to crack. Not a healthy combination at all.They could definitely use some counseling. I'm not a fan of their music, but I'm really pulling for these two to get it together.
March 2nd, 2009 5:51 PM
I thought you guys would appreciate this post. All the blame is being placed upon Chris, but we don't know just how aggressive Rihanna is! Definitely two sides to a story here, it also makes much more sense why people like Kanye West are now saying "everyone makes mistakes," and sound like they're not so upset with Chris. I think Chris' actual friends who are supporting him know that he may have really been provoked and that Rihanna's the one who hits him first.
March 2nd, 2009 6:10 PM
see thats what bugs me about this, everyone is quick to blame the man. way before they decided to look deeper in to the situation. I'm speaking as someone who was on the receiving end of domestic violence perpetrated by a female before i got tired of it and snapped. and everyone blamed me until they dug deeper. so dont take things at face value.
March 2nd, 2009 7:48 PM
Thanks so much for sharing your story, Nick.
Domestic abuse is one of the causes that I'm most passionate about.
As far as Rihanna's concerned, I think we were all fooled here. Everyone's like, "Why is Rihanna back with him?" Guilt perhaps. She ignited their pre-Grammys feud and Chris will always be the bad guy unless she comes forward to tell the public the truth.
They both need to stay away from each other and I wish them nothing but the best - they obviously don't know shit.
Glad you're not with that female anymore, Nick! That's great news. :)
March 3rd, 2009 10:01 AM
I agree with you. I"m gonna lay something on the line right here and now. A long time ago, when I was a teen, a boy was teasing me. Although we were playing, I still got pissed, so much that I hauled off and slapped him so hard I reconfigured his hairline! let me tell you though, I think he was in shock and it took him a few minutes to wrestle with his emotions as to how he should handle what I'd done. Well, I just knew he wouldn't hit me because "I was a 'girl' ". Well, he must have felt very disrespected because within a few minutes, I caught a full-open-fingered- sweaty-palmed slap across my face! Even though he was wrong for hitting me, I felt that I deserved it because I slapped him first. Neither one of us deserved it, and that's how I feel about it. After he hit me, I could tell he felt bad about it but I can understand it, he was pissed.
There's something about slapping someone in the face that just puts them in another place mentally. it's disrespectful, violating and infuriating.
I think we both learned a valuable lesson that day. Keep your hands to yourself no matter if it's a dude or not. If you slap someone, you just might get the sound slapped out of your days!!! Right or wrong.
Some of y'all might not agree with me but this is how I feel about it.
P. P.P.
March 3rd, 2009 4:54 PM
OMG that's so true - the last poster hit (forgive the pun) the nail on the head. Violence meted out on anyone disrespectful. I donkey-kicked my college roommate when he slapped me hard. And we're still talking :-)
September 12th, 2009 10:06 PM
Even if Rihanna was hitting on Chris...Chris should of walked away...I am not saying Rihanna is right for hitting him...but to avoid anything walk away....
November 4th, 2009 8:29 AM
Wow. Never read this before! If she didn't want to ever be a victim of domestic violence, she should have never started it! Guys shouldn't hit girls, but girls shouldn't hit guys thinking they won't get hit back! I have never, ever put my hands on someone without expecting to get hit back. That's like antagonizing a pit bull, then crying when he bites your ass. Yeah, I'm a fighter. I've been knocked out by my bro many times growing up and knocked out many bitches when they deserved it. You don't see me crying just because I might have lost a few rounds. Rihanna is an instigator, then tries to come off as the victim? What a fake bitch.
November 6th, 2009 6:33 PM
I am legitimately glad to have stumbled upon this website. I'm so tired of everybody always blaming the man for this sort of stuff. It's prepostrous to think that someone would just hit their mate out of boredome or bc there was nothing else better to do. I've been on both sides of this tragedy and I can tell you. Women take advantage of this. It's sickenning.