Perez Hilton's non-apology/ justification statement is pathetic.
Standing up for yourself is calling someone else a fag?! And "unfortunately the one who got hurt" was himself? Is the dude serious?! And "words should not provoke someone to violence"? I guess he learned nothing form Sharon Osbourne's smackdown on Megan during the Charm School reunion! Heh.
And "if no one "deserves" to be the victim of violence and no one 'has it coming,'" than Perez Hilton needs to explain world history to us cause he lives on another planet which we should all visit sometime when we're high. Enjoy the self-righteousness from Pretzel:
“Words can hurt. I know that very well, from both sides of the fence. The other night in Toronto, after feeling physically threatened by a verbally abusive Will.I.Am of the Black Eyed Peas, I chose the most hurtful word I know to hurl at him. I was in an out-of-the ordinary situation and used a word that I would not utter under normal circumstances.
My intention - however misguided it may have been - was to stand up for myself and tell this belligerent man that I had enough of his badgering and was not going to continue to let him berate and intimidate me. I wanted to hurt him with the word I chose, not anyone else. Unfortunately, the one who got hurt was me and, subsequently, a lot of other people. I wish none of it had happened. I can’t take it back.
I did what I thought was best at the moment to stand up for myself in a non-violent yet still assertive way. Clearly, I am not homophobic. Also, I am not nor have I ever claimed to be a spokesperson for the gay community. I am just speaking for myself, a gay man. One who is labeled “flamboyant” in the media. An American that is not granted equal rights under the law. I will continue to speak out for equality and I will continue to say things that upset both gay people and straight people.
Who I am as a person and what I do for a living are two separate things. I’ve come to terms with all my incongruities and am proud of who I am and what I do. In closing, words can hurt. But words should not provoke someone to violence. Stripped away from the mask of Perez Hilton, I have been extremely bothered by the public reaction to my assault.
Violence should never be condoned with such statements as “It’s Karma” or “I don’t believe in violence but….”. In fact, several television and radio shows over the past couple of days echoed the sentiment “He had it coming”. Would they have said the same thing if I was a woman? Would I have “deserved it” if I had been stabbed? Or shot? Or killed? I was attacked from behind without warning and repeatedly punched in the head in a cold, disgusting and unnecessarily violent manner by Polo Molina, the road manager for the Black Eyed Peas, who I did not even speak with that evening.
I did not share any words with him and his assault on me was completely unprovoked. I feel like everything happens for a reason and I leave this traumatic experience as a person with more compassion. Specifically, there was an instance last year when actor Jesse Metcalfe was attacked outside of a Hollywood nightclub by a fellow entertainer. I did not condone the violence, but I did make light of that situation. I regret that. Sincerely.
There are many ways to deal with disagreements, both good and bad, but violence is never the answer. Never. I now know that first-hand. It should not be condoned, promoted or accepted. No one “deserves” to be the victim of violence. No one “has it coming.” NO ONE. And victims should not be ridiculed. I look forward to marching for equality in Washington, D.C. this October. And I look forward to standing up for my rights in a Toronto courtroom shortly, as I fully intend to seek every lawful remedy against the man that attacked me.”





















June 24th, 2009 11:52 AM
While violence isn't the answer, what the hell did he expect?? He committed a version of verbal assault himself, which equals in many ways the physical assault he "suffered". Please, my nana feels more pain just getting up from her chair every morning.
His person and what he does for a living are two seperate things? Don't think so. He takes his "person" to all the celeb things he can, benefits from what he does for a living, and I for one don't think there's a hella lot of difference between what he puts out there maliciously on the net and what he, the person, really feels. He's insecure, vapid, moronic, vicious, and sad beyond belief. Unfortunately, he's an idiot with a keyboard that has managed to glom onto people willing to feed him things to distress others. Shame on them too. Call it what ya wish, divine justice, shaden, karma, whatevs...dude just paid up, on a discount plan no less, for just a bit of the bad ju ju he's poured out over the years.
Bes' invest in Kleenex, Piggy, you're gonna need a lot of them. Mebbe Chris Crocker can help ya out...
As an aside, I do want to reiterate that violence is to be avoided, if at all possible, and a strong person that normally would walk away sometimes makes poor judgement, but what Perez did/does is to provoke, with his own admission, and anyone with a brain can see that the result is not unexpected.
Wish he'd slither off somewhere and twitter to himself...no joke.
June 24th, 2009 12:01 PM
Is this his way of outing the guy???
June 24th, 2009 2:52 PM
Perez does not know how to apologize. He would have to understand how to be contrite first.