No one had to know that Jennifer Love Hewitt was flying to San Francisco for penis, but she was so excited about her prospects that she tweeted the following message on Twitter: “OMG! Ben F [accept] my final rose!!! Gottabook a flight to Sonoma!!!”

Hewitt and Ben Flajnik of The Bachelorette were spotted making out at a bar in San Francisco on Saturday, which sounded fairly promising. But an insider is saying that Benjamin is just not that into Jenny. He also claims that she was "obsessed" with him, which is one of man's favorite words.

“Jennifer was obsessed with Ben and so she had her people reach out to him and she flew all the way out to San Francisco just to see him and have lunch with him. He wasn’t into her — he, like, totally wasn’t feeling it.”

I looked through Hewitt's Twitter. She deleted her message about flying to Sonoma, but some of her other tweets include:

• men have to ask women on dates remember that. It's important that they be men.

• Aaaaaaahhhhhhh Ben f is following me!!!!! You lovelys are the best!!!!:):) sending a million roses to u guys too

Jen's a cute girl. She has potential, she just may need a lobotomy at this point.